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你会说话吗?说话的12个技巧  

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1、“有一说一”和“自以为是”不同,别把粗鲁当成真性情

与他人相处,要遵循一个基本原则:己所不欲,勿施于人。你可以真挚地描述自己的感受,前提是不要带有攻击性,至于对他人做出评价和判断,则需要谨慎和尊重。很多年轻人错把谨慎和尊重当成虚伪,把粗鲁和狭隘当成真性情,殊不知尖刻的话语已在无意中伤害了对方。所以说话前,请站在对方立场想一想,成熟的人,说什么都会让人觉得舒服。

2、运用好你的肢体语言

在不同的场合,肢体语言具有完全不同的意义。要能够适时改变你的非语言交流能力。眼神交流是其中最重要的方式。有时在极度敏感的场合,也可以选择并肩而坐,这样可以避免眼神交流所带来的压力,进而让对方感到舒适。

3、尽量不使用否定性的词语

不停使用否定词语常常给人一种命令或批评的感觉,虽然明确地说明了你的观点,但更不易于接受。很多的问题都是可以使用肯定的词语来表达的。多使用积极的词汇不只是为了让别人喜欢你,更重要的是调整你对生活的看法。下一次,试着用“我希望你重新考虑一下这个想法”代替“我不同意你的看法”吧。

4、倾听并适当地给予反馈

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